A revolutionary 2 hour Workshop by Maggie Nick, LCSW
Mama, Trauma Therapist +
Founder of Parenting With Perspectacles

Many of us worry that we have “anger problems” because we sometimes explode like a VOLCANO.

We feel ashamed of our anger.
We feel like we "should be able to CONTROL it." 

But sometimes, our body has different plans. Suddenly we're screaming or the tears come + we have no idea what just happened.

We worry our kids will struggle with this, too.

❌ NOT by shutting the anger down when it comes.
❌ NOT by punishing them for being angry.
❌ NOT by making our kid feel ashamed of their anger.

— If kids never learn HOW to deal with their anger...

— If they always push it down + pretend it's not there...

— If kids feel ashamed of their anger...

> > That's a recipe for an Anger Problem.

...It's also how we were all parented 🫠 which explains why so many of us secretly struggle + feel ashamed of our Anger.

✅  By ALLOWING them to feel their anger.
✅  With strong boundaries around aggression.
✅  So they can *learn how to self-regulate* through anger when it comes.

> > That's a recipe for a ✨HEALTHY✨ relationship with Anger.

"In 2 short hours with this Workshop, you've helped me let go of all of my anxiety about my kids having an anger problem one day."

- Theresa, Mama of 2 (ages 3, 5 + 8)

This Workshop will teach you how to raise your toddler or teen to have a HEALTHY relationship with Anger.

I'll give you the WORDS TO SAY when your kid is angry, melting down, lashing out at you + their sibling, spiraling with self-hate + much more.

Transforming how you see + experience your kid's anger, frustration + meltdowns! Whether they're a toddler or a teen or somewhere in between.

✅  SCRIPTS + Examples to help your child learn how to COPE with and TOLERATE the stress + frustration that often leads to anger meltdowns.

✅  SCRIPTS + Examples to help your child learn how to SELF-REGULATE - 

How to release the stress, frustration, anger + other Big Feelings that amplify anger into a messy meltdown.

✅  SCRIPTS + Examples to help YOU learn how to be calm so you can help your child CO-REGULATE -

How to SEE THROUGH the attitude, defiance + anger TO your child, inside.

How to stop being so triggered + have the words to say to REACH + CONNECT with your child right there in the middle of the meltdown.

✅  SCRIPTS + Examples to help your child have a healthy relationship with anger - 

So you can feel confident that they'll be able to MANAGE anger when it comes, in a healthy way that does not hurt anyone or anything. AND model it all for their kids someday.

"I now know what to say to my kids when I get triggered. How to not damage them with my anger. That's priceless."

- Molly, Mama of 3 (ages 5, 4 + 11 months)

"I was always so lost on gentle parenting that says there is no consequence if there is not a natural consequence. Then Maggie came along and helped me see that my child is seeking a consequence from me! And what to do when there is no natural consequence. This was one of the biggest pieces I was missing and it has been gamechanging."

- Marley, Mama of 2

I’m the founder of Parenting With Perspectacles.

I'm a Mama in the trenches, too. Trying every day to give my kids the parent I needed when I was a kid.

Like most people I know, I struggled with perfectionism, people pleasing, and codependent relationships + viscous self hate.

I was freaking determined to heal myself before having kids so that my kids wouldn’t struggle with the devastating core beliefs I struggled with -

😬  Feeling like nothing I ever did was good enough.

😬  Feeling like I didn't "deserve" love.

😬  Feeling like is something wrong with me.

😬  Feeling like making a mistake means needing to go to a dark place where I hate + berate myself to "motivate" them to do better next time.

With my groundbreaking insights on discipline, emotional regulation + healing low self-worth, I created Parenting With Perspectacles, a framework to support you in the thick of parenting while healing your own inner child.

Whether you're a parent of a toddler or teen or somewhere in between, I can help you find your way through the hardest, most impossible moments of parenting + disrespect by giving you the tools to help both your child AND yourself.

I can teach you how to get Perspectacles on your child or teen's anger so you can stop getting triggered + connect with them deeply, right then + there. So you can have the connected, loving relationship with them that you've always wanted.

Maggie Nick, LCSW, MSW
Founder, Parenting With Perspectacles

" Your parenting scripts are pure magic. I'm able to connect with my kid instantly. Even when they're shutting me out. You've saved my relationship with my teenager. I love you and your Perspectacles so much."

- Trina, Mama of 3 (ages 13, 10 + 8)

Q U E S T I O N S
you've probably got

Will this help me if my kid is a toddler? Teen?

YES! All kids, no matter what age have the same 6 Core Needs from us. Obviously we have to adapt a bit to meet our kid where they are developmentally, but the basics of the way you respond to a kid when they're melting down is the same whether they're a toddler or a teen!

I'm brand new to Parenting With Perspectacles. Will this still help me?

YES! 100%. This Workshop will help any parent - whether you've been practicing Parenting With Perspectacles for years or you just found me today!

I did Boundaries With Perspectacles BOOTCAMP. Did you cover the information in this Workshop also in Bootcamp?

This Workshop includes brand NEW material that I have never taught before. Bootcamp gives you a really solid foundation to build on BUT I don't have the time or space to deep dive into anger during Bootcamp the way I did in this Workshop!

My kid doesn't have meltdowns. Never has. Now what?

All kids need regular emotional releases. If they're never melting down...they're bottling everything up + emotionally imploding. And their self-worth is taking that hit.

In this Workshop, I will be explaining all of this + how to encourage + help your kid feel safe releasing feelings.

Help your kid learn how to stop exploding like a VOLCANO!

So they can manage their stress, frustration + anger in a healthy way (instead of bottling up + exploding!) into adulthood 🙌

" Your entire perspective on parenting without shame has changed how I view everything about my parenting and I've become more aware of my kid's self-worth. Thank you, thank you, thank you for showing me accountability DOES NOT require shame.

The work you're doing is incredible and mindblowing and is going to change the world."

- Ashton, Mama

" I'm a Therapist and you're taking the things I teach my clients to say to their Inner Child, and teaching parents to say that to their children.

I don't have words to fully express how amazing that is. I recommend your parenting framework to every single client, but for parenting AND for reparenting their Inner Child."

- TAMARA, THERAPIST

" These scripts work like MAGIC with my kids! My 12 year old is my 'good kid' so the scripts about self-hatred and clingy/needy behavior have helped me most with him. But my 8 year old is my "challenging" kid (he has Oppositional Defiance Disorder) and honestly, every single script has helped me with him.

It's like I finally have that missing piece - knowing exactly what words to say - and it is making such a difference for our whole family. We cannot thank you enough, Maggie. "

- LAUREN, MAMA OF 2 (12 + 8)

“My girl (15) is coming back to me. We have our moments but I’m able to see her under that attitude and connect with her. That is everything.”

FROM CONNIE, MAMA OF 3 (ages 15, 12 + 8)

“I kept breathing and tried telling him 'it is ok to be upset but the answer is no.’ I was able to see how badly he needed to as you say, blow up! Then all of a sudden, the anger turned to tears and my boy cried hard. I could tell he had been holding so much stuff in that he probably felt like he needed to burst. I can hardly believe how differently it all went…I feel so much hope that I will survive this whole teenage thing afterall!"

FROM CARLY, MAMA OF 2 (ages 17 + 12) 

"Parenting with Perspectacles' Boundaries Bootcamp has completely changed our home! I followed PWP on social media for a while and realized her posts were really making sense to me but did NOT match what was happening in our house. We attended her Boundaries Bootcamp and it was life-changing. I knew we were parenting in a way that didn't feel right but didn't know what else to do.

Maggie's focus on boundaries, teaching children to trust themselves and their emotions, and just allowing everyone to be HUMAN really clicked with us. The way we parent now feels 'right' and our household is so much happier. We're fans for life!"

- ASHLEY + RYAN, PARENTS OF 2 (ages 5 + 3)

“It’s happening, Maggie. I get what is happening and I feel like I know what the &$@% I am doing. Now, I do have my moments...but thanks to you, I know screwing up is important and I know what to do when I screw up to connect again and move forward together. You're changing our whole world, my kids are less anxious and so am I. Thank you."

FROM LAUREN, MAMA OF 2 (ages 17 + 13)

Help your kid learn how to stop exploding like a VOLCANO!

So they can manage their stress, frustration + anger in a healthy way (instead of bottling up + exploding!) into adulthood 🙌

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