— Nearly every parent I have ever worked with.

...including ME, back in the day!
I see you 💛.
Trying SO hard to be that calm, loving parent.

Trying to raise kind, resilient kids who know they are LOVED.

Trying not to yell.
Trying to have a connected, close relationship with your child or teen.

And despite trying so hard to figure it out...feeling LOST on how to handle the disrespect.

Disrespect can be so freaking triggering 😵‍💫.
✨ I want no more walking on eggshells. Because parenting SUCKS when you're afraid to say "No" because it'll set your kid off 😵‍💫.

✨ I ALSO want no more moments where you slam doors + hide in a closet because you're so done feeling like such an utter failure...where you feel like, "What is the freaking point??! I'm trying + I'm trying + I'm trying, + they just keep being disrespectful." 

✨ I want no more moments of You feeling like a failure because "good" parents have "good" kids who are always respectful + never misbehave.

⬆️ THAT is bullshit. 

> > It's how our parents raised us but it's NOT grounded in what we now know about the science of child development, emotional self-regulation + how kids develop self-confidence + self-worth.

✨ I ALSO want no more moments where your kid feels like a failure because they can't pull themselves together.

⬆️ I've counseled so many kids who carry this DEEP shame. It's devastating.

When your kid is disrespectful...YOU are NOT a failure. And neither is your child or teen.

✨ But. The good news is we CAN stop that disrespect in it's tracks. We can disarm it. NOT by yelling + shutting it down, though.

✨ We can reach right under that disrespect + CONNECT with our child or teen, inside. 

✨ I want you to transform your relationship with your kid like I did. By changing how you SEE the disrespect...which allows you to stop getting triggered by it.

So you can CONNECT with your child or teen who NEEDS connection with you in that moment + just doesn't have another way to ask for it.

✨ I want you to feel super connected to your kids EVEN in those moments. I want to teach you how to get Perspectacles on so you can see through to your child inside.
💛 WHY kids act disrespectfully AND why they can't stop themselves even when they "know better."

💛 6 crucial keys to DISARMING the disrespect — to stopping that disrespect in its tracks...with CONNECTION instead of yelling. With LOVE instead of “I’m not mad, I’m disappointed.”

💛 How to STOP getting so triggered by disrespect because you'll see it as the Check Engine Light it really is — an indicator of a different problem.

💛 How to see through the disrespect, the eye rolling + the exasperated sighs TO your child or teen inside — which allows us to absolutely TRANSFORM that triggering moment into feeling deeply CONNECTED to them + fostering mutual respect.

💛 How to let these hard moments bring you + your child or teen CLOSER TOGETHER instead of further apart. And heal your relationship if it feels like you've lost them.

💛 How to Repair when you get triggered by the disrespect + you lose your ish — the steps to circling back, talking about what happened + reestablishing the loving connection you both want.

I know you've got 7 million things on your To-Do List so I broke this Workshop down into 3 separate videos to allow you to get right to the type of support you need (the 6 key insights, the scripts + the Pep Talk).

You'll get instant on-demand access to all videos + anything else I add in the future!
I'll walk you through the 6 KEYS to disarming the disrespect, completely blowing your mind + helping make sense of it all. You won't be able to see disrespect the same again 💛
I'll share the actual words I say with my kids in 7 different scenarios involving disrespect. So you can have the words to help you instantly disarm the disrespect + CONNECT with your child or teen 💛. 
It's going to happen — you're going to lose your ish sometimes.

I've got an incredible Pep Talk to help you through these moments where I'll remind you that you are an incredible parent who's trying so hard AND I'll walk you through what to do + say to circle back to your child, talk about what happened + reestablish the loving connection you both want 💛

Get instant on-demand access to all 3 videos — The Workshop, The Scripts + The Pep Talk, for $37 USD. Watch as many times as you need + whenever you need! 💛

I’d estimate I’ve spent more than half of my 16 years in Trauma Therapy myself trying to figure out WHY I felt like I didn’t deserve love.

My road led back to how I was disciplined as a kid so high up on my list as a Mom myself was figuring out how to raise kids who actually feel lovable AND deserving of love.
I was the “mature” kid who was ALWAYS respectful + well-behaved.

And I have spent my entire life recovering. It has been the great challenge of my lifetime to figure out who the heck am I, under the desire to be “good.” Under all the anxiety + perfectionism + people pleasing + self-hate + feeling not good enough + fear of making people mad + fear of letting others down.
And I teach a revolutionary approach to healing low self-worth.

So, so, so much of your suffering + anxiety + low self-worth comes RIGHT BACK to your Inner Critic, criticizing your every move.

Surprisingly, our Inner Critic is NOT the bad guy we think they are + taming our Inner Critic is the freaking KEY to healing yourself + being that parent you thought you’d be.
Y'all, disrespect has been my TOP trigger 😵‍💫  The way I tried to stay calm but would just explode like a volcano when my kids were disrespectful! Goodness, it was hard.

I am committed to discipline + accountability — but in a way that doesn't hurt our kids. We can discipline in a way that brings us closer to our kids together instead of further apart.

Parenting With Perspectacles is about how to feel safe letting your child or teen have their Big Feelings. And Accountability where you own the hell out of your boundaries, with love NOT shame. So you can raise kind, confident kids who actually love themselves + feel good enough!

Q: I have your Dealing With Disrespect + Defiance Workshop...is this the same thing?
It is not the same thing but does cover similar material — both have scripts, a Pep Talk + my revolutionary framework on disrespect. 

I did not specifically talk about disrespect being like a Check Engine Light in my Dealing With Disrespect + Defiance Workshop. This Workshop is my most up-to-date on disrespect + has the information broken into 3 separate videos to help you get right to the type of support you need (the 6 key insights, the scripts + the Pep Talk).
Q: Will this be offered again in the future?
I do plan on opening this up again but am not sure when, so TBD.

Get instant on-demand access to The Workshop, The Scripts + The Pep Talk, for $37 USD. Watch as many times as you need + whenever you need! 💛
countdown
00 Years 00 Months 00 Weeks 00 Days 00 Hours 00 Minutes 00 Seconds
Copyright Maggie Nick 2023. All Rights Reserved