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P A R E N T I N G .
Maggie Nick, LCSW
CREATOR OF PARENTING WITH PERSPECTACLES
I'm updating Crash Course to make it even better for you!
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WHAT IF you knew exactly what to do when your child is:
+ defiant..
+ acting like a jerk..
+ being super unreasonable..
+ angry + screaming at you..
+ being aggressive..
+ upset + it doesn't make sense..
+ doing stuff they know they shouldn't..
+ being manipulative + lying..
+ anxious + worried..
+ feeling down about themselves...
WHAT IF you had a whole framework that helped all of this make so much sense?
WHAT IF you were not triggered...
..not anxious...
..not frustrated...
..not overwhelmed...
..+ not confused???!
WHAT if you could REACH your child in those moments?
WHAT if you could see through the stuff happening in that moment, to your precious child inside?
WHAT IF these messy moments could actually nurture both your relationship with your child ANDDD their self-worth?!
WHAT IF much of how we've been told to parent is actually BS...+ to do all of these things, we have to learn a different way??
WHAT IF much of how we've been told to parent is actually BS...+ to do all of these things, we have to learn a different way??
WHAT IF you could help your child actually believe in their worth, deeply?
WHAT IF you could help your child stop with their self-hatred + learn how to love all of themselves?!
WHAT IF...there was no Mom Guilt + you were deeply grounded in the sense that you are ENOUGH + you're doing your freaking best + that is ENOUGH.
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I N T R O D U C I N G
A self-study 1-hour video mini course to help you ditch the overwhelm + head scratching + anxiety + drama about parenting, so you can feel confident on how to respond, whether your kid is screaming at you, shut down + feeling down about themselves or anxious. How to hold them accountable for their behavior AAAND help them know their WORTH.
Focusing on both strategy + profound mindset shifts, Crash Course in Parenting With Perspectacles is all about helping you make the shift from being the parent who's wibbly wobbly on boundaries + losing it + triggered + overwhelmed trying to parent a toddler or teenager...
...to The Confident Leader with a deep understanding of how to respond + help kids in all moments of parenting, calmly holding them accountable for their behavior (without yelling!) + knowing how to nurture their self-worth + help them believe in their WORTH.
Watch this course as many times as you need, you'll have lifetime access!
Let's peek into some of the crucial + mind-blowing shifts I teach in the course...
WHEN YOUR KID IS ACTING LIKE AN JERK
Perspectacles on > > I PROMISE they wish they could cooperate right now. It makes them feel scary powerful to be able to rattle you + infuriate you.
WHEN YOUR KID IS DOING STUFF THEY *KNOW* THEY SHOULDN'T BE DOING
Perspectacles on > > Kids testing boundaries IS NOT misbehavior. Kids use boundaries BRILLIANTLY. As a release valve.
Kids will never admit this to parents but they tell me (their Therapist) - that they WANT boundaries AND feel insecure + unsafe without them.
WHEN YOUR KID IS BEING MANIPULATIVE
Perspectacles on > > Kids. Are. NOT. Manipulative. Your "manipulative" child is flailing + DESPERATE to feel valuable + loved.
WHEN YOUR KID IS BEING CLINGY + IT DRIVES YOU CRAZY
Perspectacles on > > Kids know what they need. WE need to TRUST them to know what they need. We raise independent kids are not needy by giving them the connection they ask for, when they ask for it. NOT by deciding they shouldn't need us right now + denying them snuggles + connection + soothing.
WHEN YOUR KID IS ANXIOUS + WORRIES ALL THE TIME
Perspectacles on > > anxiety is like a "Check Engine" light in a car. Kids feeling anxious is alwaysssss a reaction to + reflection of SOMETHING.
We must learn how to parent in a way that meets ALL of kid's emotional needs - feeling safe, soothed, SEEN, secure + valuable. Even when they're acting out + emotionally outbursting + challenging us. Which is not possible given how we were all parented.
WHY YOUR KID IS *SO UPSET* ABOUT SOMETHING *SO INSIGNIFICANT*
Perspectacles on > > The Thing Is Not The Thing -- The Thing (the boundary testing /explosion / clinginess SEEMS to be about) is NOT The Thing (it’s actually about). It’s an iceberg. It's the smoke, NOT the fire.
You DON'T need "strategies" to calm your kid down. You need to let them FEEL - the stress, the frustration, the anger, the sadness.
$37 USD
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I’m a mom with a counseling practice and a parent coaching practice. I'm ALL DONE with parents AND kids feeling like they're failing.
Like most people I know, I struggled with perfectionism, people pleasing, and codependent relationships + viscous self hate.
I was freaking determined to heal myself before having kids so that my kids wouldn’t struggle with all that stuff.
But YEARS of therapy and even grad school for counseling still didn’t help me to understand why I HATED myself so much and why at 29, I still struggled to sit with my feelings. And it all came down to one thing: low self-worth.
You know how we create the thing we need but can’t find?
I created the Parenting with Perspectacles as a framework to help parents break the cycle of low self-worth that has impacted all of us so deeply.
I’m on a mission to create a world where kids deeply know their worth.
Where parents can learn how to get their Perspectacles on and help their child learn how to love AND not feel ashamed of their messy, jacked up, complicated parts of themselves. Helping parents learn to love ALL of those parts within their kids so their kids can love ALL of those parts of themselves, too.
So you can kids who WON’T need to learn how to stop hating themselves + learn to love all of themselves as adults…in therapy!
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$37 USD
I N T H I S 1 - H O U R
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I will walk you through mind-blowing Core Concept after mind-blowing Core Concept of my parenting framework.
So you can know how to help your kid whether they are angry or anxious or clingy or defiant.
> > What you need to say + do.
But more importantly, how to approach the situation mindset-wise.
> > Ready to help your child actually believe in their worth + stop needing to please everyone else?
> > Ready to help your child love themselves THROUGH making mistakes + failure + stop worrying so much about letting others down?
> > Ready to actually feel like parenting makes sense, especially the messy moments?
> > Ready to be able to stay calm when your kid is being aggressive, challenging you + so angry?
> > Ready to stop feeling so much Mom Guilt / Dad Guilt ...+ feel deeply grounded in the sense that you are ENOUGH + you're doing your freaking best + that is ENOUGH?!
Let's make this your reality. Let's do this!
$37 USD
Say HELL YES + let's get STARTED
"I followed Parenting with Perspectacles on social media for a while and realized her posts were really making sense to me but did NOT match what was happening in our house...I knew we were parenting in a way that didn't feel right but didn't know what else to do.
Maggie's focus on boundaries, teaching children to trust themselves and their emotions, and just allowing everyone to be HUMAN really clicked with us. The way we parent now feels 'right' and our household is so much happier. We're fans for life!"
FROM ASHLEY + RYAN, PARENTS OF 2 (ages 5 + 3)
“It’s happening, Maggie. I get what is happening and I feel like I know what the &$@% I am doing. Now, I do have my moments...but thanks to you, I know screwing up is important and I know what to do when I screw up to connect again and move forward together. You're changing our whole world, my kids are less anxious and so am I. Thank you."
FROM LAUREN, MAMA OF 2 (ages 17 + 13)
“My girl (15) is coming back to me. We have our moments but I’m able to see her under that attitude and connect with her. That is everything.”
FROM CONNIE, MAMA OF 3 (ages 15, 12 + 8)
“I kept breathing and tried telling him 'it is ok to be upset but the answer is no.’ I was able to see how badly he needed to as you say, blow the F up! Then all of a sudden, the anger turned to tears and my boy cried hard. I could tell he had been holding so much stuff in that he probably felt like he needed to burst. I can hardly believe how differently it all went…I feel so much hope that I will survive this whole teenage thing afterall!"
FROM CARLY, MAMA OF 2 (ages 17 + 12) :
"Thank you Maggie, for helping me find my way back to my kids. I'm able to see them as struggling and needing help instead of bad and bratty like I used to. It has made such a difference all around. Highly recommend to any parent! "
FROM DEANA, MAMA OF 2 (ages 14 + 11) :
“I love how Maggie always says to me: ‘YOU’RE A HUMAN, NOT A FREAKING ROBOT!’ This is the only parenting approach I’ve ever found that has space in it for me to have imperfect mom moments without feeling like the worst mom ever. Which somehow has magically allowed me to be a much better mom – and – go easier on myself when I struggle to be the mom my kiddos need me to be.”
FROM LISA, MAMA OF 2 (AGES 6 + 3)
“I really like how you teach Maggie! I like how you explain things in simple terms. And I like how I feel like I am talking with a girlfriend, but clearly you know your $#!% because you’re a therapist. But I like how you don’t talk all high + mighty, if that makes sense.”
FROM AUDREY, MAMA OF 2 (AGES 9 + 13)
“You and your Perspectacles have completely shifted the way we see the kids. You have changed everything. Your work is brilliant.”
FROM A DAD OF 4 (AGES 15, 12, 10 + 10)
Your whole understanding about parenting can look TOTALLY different one hour from now...
What are you waiting for?! Let's. Do. This.
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